Your Gay Best Friend
Gabriel St Claire, gives advice on life, love and lust.
Is anal sex okay?
By Gabriel
Dear Gabriel,
My lover wants to enjoy anal sex with me. Yuck! Should I? How? Will I enjoy it?
Ariadne
Dear Ariadne
I’m not sure if you mean he wants to penetrate you or if he is perhaps fantasising about you and a dildo! Seriously, any sex should be mutually enjoyable so if it’s really going to be yuck for you, I’d say no. On the other hand, if the thought is just a teeny bit of a turn on, I’d say stretch your boundaries, as it were, and do some ground work. A good douche, lots of lubrication, oodles of time, and a dollop of dirty talk should get you through. The bottom line – if it works it works, if it doesn’t it doesn’t. But you will definitely find out whether you enjoyed it!
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Ask your gay best friend for help on anything at all. Gabriel's tart but not unkind, and he's impossible to shock. He may not be an aunt, but he's used to agony. And the fact that he's a shrink doesn't harm.
